How to approach ladies

           90% of these guys don't have ANY FREAKING' CLUE how to talk to a woman on a fun, interesting, real level.

 They don't offer her any VALUE.
They're not going to make her life any more interesting.
They're not going to teach her anything new.
They're not making her night any more fun.
Instead, they walk up to her, offer some lame introduction, and start trying to talk about themselves -- giving her the "sales pitch" on why HE is the guy who deserves to
bang her.

Now, if she's friendly and polite, and pretends to be interested in what he's saying, he's going to keep talking...and talking...and talking...
He will invade her personal space and try to monopolize her attention ENDLESSLY.
It's no wonder that most women will look for an EXIT from this situation as soon as possible, before it gets too weird and uncomfortable.

The longer she indulges him, the more of a CHANCE he thinks he has...and she doesn't want to give him any ideas...
(You know what annoys women even more than the macho, aggressive, "player" guys? The "shy guys." They quietly walk up and start an incredibly BORING conversation. Women don't want to be rude to him, they just wish he would take the hint and go away...)

Either way, next thing you know, the girl you're talking to says she needs to "go find her friend."
The key to building a bond with a woman is to ENGAGE her attention and get her to share information about herself. Then you'll tell her how much YOU relate, and
establish rapport with her.

One of my favorite conversational tactics for accomplishing this is using Cold Reads. This technique, which is used to great effect by psychics and palm readers, is a way to make the other person feel like you understand what makes them tick, and what they're going through, without them telling you.

The trick with Cold Reads is that the "observations" you're
making about her apply to virtually anyone. Yet there are
psychological reasons why they work so effectively.

Human beings are self-centered, and we generally accept claims about ourselves that reflect how we WISH to be.
Also, people are vain.

We want to be seen as unique.
                             Even though Cold Reads are usually vague generalizations -- which would apply to your Aunt Bernice, just as they would to the hot tie with the thong peeking out the back of her jeans -- we WANT to agree with the person who "reads" us, and we'll believe they have unusual powers of perception.

So forget about asking the generic "job interview" questions. ("So what's your name," "where are you from) If I'm in a club, talking to some babe who's acting a bit hard to get, I'll bust out a Cold Read:

"Y 'know, Lisa, I get the sense that a lot of guys get the wrong idea when they first meet you. They think you're stand-offish and a bit cold. But you're actually a lot more sensitive, and funny, than people realize."

Another example: "I get the sense it takes you a while to trust people, because you've been hurt before by someone who was really close to you. But the people that do earn your trust, you would do anything for them."

Or, "I can tell that you're someone who usually plays it safe and doesn't take chances, but sometimes you've regretted it because you missed out an opportunity. But then other times, you're spontaneous and adventurous, and you do take chances...and that's when you've had some of the best times of your life."

If she agrees with one of these "reads" -- and honestly, I've never had a woman flat-out disagree -- I'll follow up by telling her that I can totally relate, because
"I'm the same way."
So, instead of asking her the usual lame questions, you are TELLING her things about herself that she wants to agree with.

This builds a BOND between me and her. In order to solidify the bond, I'll tell a quick story -- one that illustrates how I'm the same type of person.

(If you've got five Cold Reads ready to use, you should also have five short stories to illustrate how you embody those same qualities.)
A similar tactic is using "Barnum statements," named after the circus showman P.T. Barnum. These statements apply to
just about anybody, but give the impression that you're
tapping into her inner psyche.

My favorite is, "I can tell something has been weighing on your mind. You're on the verge of making an important decision in your life, aren't you"

Pretty much all of us, at any given time, are contemplating a big decision (or one that is big to us, at least).
Regardless, she'll be surprised and impressed that you knew that about her.
          Now, she'll probably volunteer more information -- and you're engaged in a deep, authentic conversation instead of trying to fill dead air, or blabbing about your job or how hard you partied the other night.

Much of what a cold reader does is simply repeat back what the subject has said, as if he already knew the answer. If she affirms that she's on the verge of making a big decision, nod wisely and say, "Yes, that's right, and you're really having a hard time with it." Claim her answer as your own.

Some other Cold Reads that are vague yet "profound": "You have a strong need for others to like and admire you, but you also have a tendency to be critical of yourself.""You've got a hidden talent, or a passion, that most people don't know about, and you want to do more with it -- but
something is holding you back."

"At times, you're really social and outgoing. But other
times, you're reserved and introverted."

Now that you understand the idea behind Cold Reads, you
can invent your own. Based on her vibe, the way she's dressed,
and how she acts during the first few minutes of conversation,
you should be able to use a "read" that applies to her.

This is just one example of an original, thought-provoking
conversational tactic. To learn the complete ARSENAL, and
how to use them with expert PRECISION in any situation, get
this:
         Bear in mind however, that Asian women are a COMPLETELY different breed:
Remember: Driving a hot car and wearing stylish clothes doesn't make you original. Guys who flash money to women are a dime a dozen. It's the MACKS who know how to cut through the small talk, and stimulate a woman's emotions and imagination, who never go home alone. Unless they CHOOSE to go home alone.  Even us Mack’s need to take a night off once in a while :)
Funny thing, I'm STILL getting slammed with emails every day from guys who are at tails end pulling their
hair out trying to figure out a way to 'up' their game and go all the way to 'seal the deal' with that ONE girl they've always fantasized about but can't, no matter what they do.
Look. If you want to know how you can quietly go 'under her radar' and sneakily (but ethically) get her to
develop IRRESISTIBLE "urges" for you, and get her to subconsciously see a WHOLE NEW SIDE to you that she's NEVER seen before, that 'll make her want you (even more) and turn
her to be your GIRLFRIEND:

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